Tips for creating a healthy parenting relationship

By |2022-04-01T13:28:58+00:0016 Nov 2018|Categories: Child Custody|


Your children have grown up knowing only what it is like to have their parents in a relationship. If things don’t work out and you end the marriage, you might find that the kids have trouble handling this major change. It is easy to understand why, but it can be more difficult to find ways to help them adjust.

You should go into the divorce with the goal of having as little stress as possible. This can allow your children to see that divorce isn’t a life-ending event. By remaining positive about what’s going on, you can help the kids to develop the right attitude.

Dealing with your ex might prove to be quite a challenge. You shouldn’t try to be friends with them too soon. You need time to heal after the divorce, so allow yourself this time. It might help if you think about the divorce and the decisions that need to be made as more of a business arrangement.

As you and your ex decide what’s going to happen with the divorce settlement, make sure that you get it in writing. This takes away the chance that there will be disagreements about what’s going on later.

One facet of the parenting plan that you need to remember to include is how you will resolve conflicts with your ex. This should be included in the document so that you can follow the plan if there are disagreement about how the children will be raised.

For many individuals, the process of working out the details of the split are handled through mediation. This lets both parties have a say in what happens while receiving help from a third-party mediator.

About the Author:

Dorie Anne Rogers - The Law Offices of Dorie A. Rogers, APC
Dorie A. Rogers, a Family Law Specialist, Certified by the State Bar of California, has been an attorney since 1981 with an exclusive family law practice located in Orange County. She is accepting dissolution cases with support and property issues including the use of forensics to ascertain business value, community interests and to establish monthly case flow analysis. Ms. Rogers has substantial experience in high conflict custody litigation involving sophisticated psychological issues. She drafts premarital and postmarital agreement designed to define and establish parties' separate and community property interests. Paternity cases and domestic violence matters are considered part of her practice. Ms. Rogers is a court-approved and court-appointed to represent minor children.Ms. Rogers consults with individuals concerned about entering or exiting a relationship. She advises effective strategies for dissolution or premarital planning. Knowledge is power and good planning affords better results.Specialties: Family Law Specialist, Certified by the State Bar of California
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