Tips to cope with an unwanted divorce

By |2022-04-04T17:42:10+00:0025 Oct 2018|Categories: Divorce|


Some people go through a divorce that is unwanted. When you are in this situation, you might find that it is hard to cope with the situation. You might not know how to move on with your life. There are several things that you should do to help you out with this.

First, remember that holding on to the marriage can do more harm than good. No matter how much you love your now-ex, you are bound to get hurt if you try to hang around. Instead, come to terms with the unwanted divorce and accept that your life is now changing.

Second, find people who are willing to support you. One of the best helps for people in this situation is someone who is willing to listen to your thoughts and concerns. The person should be someone who is trustworthy so that you don’t have to worry about them running around telling everyone what you say.

Third, get ready for some tough days. You will probably go through a grieving process. Your marriage is over and that means that you might focus on the what-ifs and on the things that could have been. Try to look beyond these and focus on the future.

Fourth, set goals for your life. Having something to focus on can help you to feel better throughout your new life. Think about things you enjoy and try to find ways that you can incorporate those. Set short-term and long-term goals.

Make sure that you think carefully about how to protect your rights now. You can only count on yourself now, so be sure to remember this.

About the Author:

Dorie Anne Rogers - The Law Offices of Dorie A. Rogers, APC
Dorie A. Rogers, a Family Law Specialist, Certified by the State Bar of California, has been an attorney since 1981 with an exclusive family law practice located in Orange County. She is accepting dissolution cases with support and property issues including the use of forensics to ascertain business value, community interests and to establish monthly case flow analysis. Ms. Rogers has substantial experience in high conflict custody litigation involving sophisticated psychological issues. She drafts premarital and postmarital agreement designed to define and establish parties' separate and community property interests. Paternity cases and domestic violence matters are considered part of her practice. Ms. Rogers is a court-approved and court-appointed to represent minor children.Ms. Rogers consults with individuals concerned about entering or exiting a relationship. She advises effective strategies for dissolution or premarital planning. Knowledge is power and good planning affords better results.Specialties: Family Law Specialist, Certified by the State Bar of California
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