Start talking about a prenup long before the wedding

By |2022-04-06T15:15:09+00:0012 Apr 2019|Categories: Prenuptial Agreements|


A prenuptial agreement is one that you enter into before you get married. It is meant to protect both spouses in the event the marriage doesn’t work out. All of the terms of the agreement need to take both parties into consideration because it can’t favor one person over the other. It is possible for the court to throw a prenup out if it does overly favor one person.

When you are getting the prenup terms hashed out, make sure that you have a your own counsel. You can’t use the same one because there is a conflict of interest in doing that. Even though you and your future spouse are working as a team on the wedding and your future, this is one area where there has to be a division.

You can’t include things in the prenuptial agreement if they are off limits. One example of this is child custody and support. Because you have no idea what will be in the best interests of the child at the time of a divorce, you can’t include those terms in the prenup. Interestingly, you can include information and terms regarding alimony in the prenup.

Additionally, make sure that you are protecting assets that you have going into the marriage and ones that you might inherit during the course of the union. You don’t want to lose a family heirloom or home because it wasn’t covered in the prenuptial agreement. Even though these things are usually considered separate property, there is a chance that they might “comingle” with marital assets.

Each prenuptial agreement has to take the specific circumstances of the upcoming marriage into account. Be sure you start this process long before the wedding, so you have time to determine how to handle everything.

About the Author:

Dorie Anne Rogers - The Law Offices of Dorie A. Rogers, APC
Dorie A. Rogers, a Family Law Specialist, Certified by the State Bar of California, has been an attorney since 1981 with an exclusive family law practice located in Orange County. She is accepting dissolution cases with support and property issues including the use of forensics to ascertain business value, community interests and to establish monthly case flow analysis. Ms. Rogers has substantial experience in high conflict custody litigation involving sophisticated psychological issues. She drafts premarital and postmarital agreement designed to define and establish parties' separate and community property interests. Paternity cases and domestic violence matters are considered part of her practice. Ms. Rogers is a court-approved and court-appointed to represent minor children.Ms. Rogers consults with individuals concerned about entering or exiting a relationship. She advises effective strategies for dissolution or premarital planning. Knowledge is power and good planning affords better results.Specialties: Family Law Specialist, Certified by the State Bar of California
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