Child custody matters must be individualized to the children

By |2022-04-01T13:16:43+00:0012 Jan 2018|Categories: Child Custody|


Every child is different, so it stands to reason that there aren’t any one size fits all options for child custody cases. When you are in the midst of a child custody case, you need to think carefully about what you can do to make things easier for your child. Thinking about things from this standpoint can help you remember that the focus of the case isn’t you or your ex.

We realize that you and your ex might have very different views about what is best for your children. This is one of the things that makes child custody cases so difficult. You have to work with your ex for the good of your children. While we can’t force your ex to be cordial toward you, we can implore you to behave in a cordial manner with your ex. Not only can this help you feel less stressed throughout the process, it can also make it easier to come up with a compromise because you aren’t letting anger fuel you.

You might find that your ex does things just to anger you. This is a hard situation to have to face, but taking the time to find your peace might help you greatly. One thing that you can do is to take a step back from the situation when your ex starts getting out of hand.

Child custody cases might seem like they are all worked out and finalized, but as the child grows up, you might realize that things need to change. Modifications can help you to accomplish this. We can help you with initial custody cases or modification petitions that come later.

About the Author:

Dorie Anne Rogers - The Law Offices of Dorie A. Rogers, APC
Dorie A. Rogers, a Family Law Specialist, Certified by the State Bar of California, has been an attorney since 1981 with an exclusive family law practice located in Orange County. She is accepting dissolution cases with support and property issues including the use of forensics to ascertain business value, community interests and to establish monthly case flow analysis. Ms. Rogers has substantial experience in high conflict custody litigation involving sophisticated psychological issues. She drafts premarital and postmarital agreement designed to define and establish parties' separate and community property interests. Paternity cases and domestic violence matters are considered part of her practice. Ms. Rogers is a court-approved and court-appointed to represent minor children.Ms. Rogers consults with individuals concerned about entering or exiting a relationship. She advises effective strategies for dissolution or premarital planning. Knowledge is power and good planning affords better results.Specialties: Family Law Specialist, Certified by the State Bar of California
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