Divorce doesn't bring out the best in many people. When you are going through this process, you have to remember that how you express your emotions can either help or harm your case. Think carefully about what you do when your anger starts to flare.
One thing that you don't want to happen is to allow your anger to consume you. It is perfectly natural to feel anger and even hatred during a divorce, but you can't make that the focal point of your life. Instead, look at your divorce as a positive fresh start.
When you opt to remain angry, you are allowing the situation to dictate what you are doing. This robs you of the potentially positive future that you could have if you began to plan and create the life you want.
There is a chance that your ex is going to do anything that they can to make you mad. They want to use this as a way to get their way. You might not make solid decisions that are in your best interests when you are upset. For this reason, be willing to take time to calm down and consider your options if you are getting angry.
Some people find that taking a quick evaluation of the situation is what they need to refocus. If a situation isn't going to make a huge difference in your life, just let it go. Sometimes, knowing when to walk away is one of the best things you can do at the end of the marriage. If your ex chooses to continue with the negative attitude, let them do it their own life.